With a New Year comes new challenges, new adventures and a whole load of new possibilities. The best thing about getting this fresh start is that everybody is in the same mind set at the same time, it’s easier to achieve your goals when everyone is on the same page. January is a time to accept a new beginning and move on from whatever was dragging you down before. New Years Resolutions are a great thing to encourage you to become a happier you.

Here are 6 resolutions that I think everyone should give a shot!

 

1- Try Something New Every Day

Simple, yet effective. Setting yourself the challenge to do something you’ve never done or eat something you’ve never tasted will open you’re mind to so many possibilities. You will feel pride and accomplishment in yourself when you find new things you love.

 

2- Save

Buy a box that you can put money in, but cant take back out. Every day put £2 that you would usually spend on unnecessary snacks in there. By the end of the year, you’ll have £730 saved in there. Christmas bonus!

 

3- Go Your Own Way

It’s easy to get caught up following others lifestyles, doing things that don’t make you happy just to keep others smiling. Sometimes it’s okay to speak up and say what you would rather do. If nobody wants to listen, the go do it yourself.

 

4- Smile

That is all. Smile, it’s contagious.

 

5- Do a ‘Dryathalon’

You heard me. Choose a month and for that entire month… NO alcohol! Your body will thank you.

 

6- Look After You

Self care is not selfish. It’s one of the most important factors in life. If you don’t know how to look after yourself, you’re never going to be able to look after others.

 

Comment your resolutions below!

All the best for 2018,

Fiona x

My Favourite Christmas Songs | Blogmas | FionaMeikle

It is officially acceptable to listen to Christmas music, despite the fact i have been since September! Haha, you’ve been asking if i can write a post on my fav Christmas songs, so here you go! 🙂

 

1. Baby It’s Cold Outside- Dean Martin

As much as i love the original version, i also love Michael Buble and Idina Menzels cover. I acted out a play to this song in drama when i was at school, it brings back some great memories and definitely gets me in the Christmas spirit.

 

2. Rockin’ Around the Christmas Tree- Brenda Lee

It’s super fun and uplifting and who doesn’t whip out their best moves to this one. Haha!

 

3. Fairytale of New York- The Pogues

It’s not Christmas until you’ve heard The Pogues. This has always been one of my favourites and i’m sure it always will be.

 

4. Do They Know It’s Christmas-Band Aid

I love this one purely for the charitable meaning behind it. So much money is raised for charity from this song every year. It’s amazing.

 

5. Christmas Wrapping- The Waitresses

The classic, and my ultimate favourite. I know every single word to this song and could probably recite it backwards i’ve listened to it so many times! 

 

Let me know your favourites down below!

Merry 4th of December!

 

Fiona X

Asos Christmas Wishlist | Blogmas | FionaMeikle

We all love an Asos haul don’t we! I took a good look through their website last night and made a wishlist of a few of my favourite items. All these things are great for either treating yourself this Christmas or wrapping up to give to your friends for the holidays! 

 

Item 1: Christmas Piggy Jumper

I often refer to myself as a “pig in blanket” over the season because of my undesirable need to eat every single food i see. So this jumper is perfect for me! £16

 

Item 2: Christmas Romper

This is different, but i like it. A cute little pyjama romper. £35

 

Item 3: Reindeer Garland 

 

For pinning up on your wall this season, i like this because it doesn’t just have to be for Christmas. Leave it up all year round! £23

 

Item 4: Leggings and Top Combo

This leggings and top combo, it’s different but cute! For someone (like me) who lives in leggings, this is perfect. £18

 

Item 5: Rose Gold Coasters

Rose Gold is the new Silver. These will look great in your home this winter. £15

 

What is your favourite item on the list? Leave a comment and let me know!

Happy Holidays,

 

Fiona X

 

Vlogmas Day 2:

Learn to Live

I once had what most would consider a ‘normal job’. Don’t get me wrong, I learned a lot, I’m glad I was given the opportunity to gaze into the life of a ‘normal person’. The experience was eye opening. However, the biggest lesson I learned was that it just wasn’t for me. I wasn’t happy, the day to day workload overwhelmed me massively and being sat at a desk for 8 consecutive hours every single day broke me. Where this life suits the majority, it did not suit me. So I moved on. My point? If you’re not happy with who you are, change.

 

Remember, 

 

1. Having a dream is not an obligation

People always talk about their dreams, their goals, their intentions. They wont ever be fully satisfied or settled until they achieve these desires. More often than not, these are long term dreams, a way to finish a life, where they want to be when they are ‘older’. So fine, if you have something you’ve always wanted to do then why not go for it? But always work with what’s in front of you, be careful of long term dreams. If you’re always looking too far ahead, you’ll lose sight of the opportunities jumping out in your peripheral.

 

2. Everything is down to luck

You did not chose to be born, but you are considerably lucky to be here. Realising that everybody came into the world the same way will humble you, nobody has ever chosen their upbringing, intellectual ability or their aesthetics. Everything is down to luck. You cannot truly take credit for all your success nor blame others for your failures. You were lucky to make it this far, respect all the people you were lucky to have help you along the way.

 

3. Empathy

Empathy is intuitive but also something you can work on intellectually. We all have the ability to understand and share the feelings of others, if you don’t then work on it. Reflect on how you would feel to be occupying the same position. Then react accordingly.

 

4. Don’t seek happiness

We didn’t evolve to be consistently content. Unfortunately we lost that gene along the way. Live in the moment, appreciate every second and don’t overthink. We have a tendency to define ourselves in opposition. We focus on the bad rather than the good, the things we don’t like rather than the things we do. Take pride in your appearance and abilities. In return, happiness will seek you.

 

5. Have gratitude

Have readiness to show appreciation and return kindness. Find the quality to be thankful and recognise affection. Know if you show gratitude to others, you will receive it in return.

 

6. Finally, fill an empty existence

Sometimes days can feel long and empty. We find ourselves stuck in the same routine day in and day out. Get up, go to work, go home, dinner, bed. It is so easy to fall into this trap, feel like theres no way out and accept that ‘this is life’. But that’s just your perception. Fill your empty days by undertaking tasks you enjoy. Do something that makes you feel responsible. Go to the gym, classes, find a hobby, invite a friend over, go out for dinner. Do what makes you happy, give yourself something to look forward too. Fill an empty existence and enjoy every second.

 

Fiona x